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05 Apr 07 - I am currently 18 and about to graduate from high school. I was reflecting on my past today and thought of some old forgotten memories--not good ones--and remembered this site and how much it helped me years ago. I was as scared and self-loathing as most young gay teens in middle school and early high school, and through all of the denial, suicidal thoughts, secrecy, and fear, I found a lot of comfort and good advice on chadzboyz.com . I just wanted to say thank you, as a look back on all of the progress I've made. I probably first came out on your forum, six years ago, adn though the road hasn't been 100 percent smooth, I am now happy and completely out of the closet (with the exception of my father). I started coming out one-by-one to my friends last Winter/Spring, and to my Mom and sister last Easter. A year later, I am fully comfortable and have loving relationships with most of those people. I have top give credit to this wonderful site, that helped me so much when I needed help the most. Though no one really knows the struggles I had through the last few years, I know that reading the stories others had to share were the best help I could get. I now appreciate just how lucky I am, and I want to help those that need it. I know some people aren't so lucky when it comes to conservative parents or homophobic friends, and I just hope that those individuals, as well as anyone else, find comfort from your site. Thank you for all of the good your site provides. Chris, USA

21 Oct 06 - This site is not designed for me because I am fifty. However, I find it insightful because I was concerned about teenage problems. Here you are! Great! I just wish Australia had such an open and reassuring attitude. Once a teacher, many years ago, I often was at a loss about how to reassure students who might have been gay and were 'wrestling' with such issues. Did the best I could. (Everyone knew I was gay - nothing to hide here). Such as you offer is beneficial.
I only came to this site because it was actually recommended by a past student. So, word does get around. Peter, Australia

02 May 06 - I just want to thank you guys for this awesome site. I realize what appears here is a controversial topic, dealing largely with a teen audience, but I'm glad someone has the guts to do it. The bottom line is, straight teens learn throughout childhood about safe sex, abstinence, etc., and for the enjoyment, and most importantly, the safety of young gays, this site is unparalleled. Thanks so much for everything you've done! Tristonn, USA

06 Apr 06 - Hey there! well, before i dive into this i am strait, but, i wanted to thank you. Tristian, my best friend has been using your site and he he seems much happier, he used to go around with his tail tucked between his legs. I would also like to thank you about the advice that you give, it was sort of akward when tristian started asking me how to tell if guys liked him, or whether or not i thought so and so would be gay, one of the hardest things was when tristian was hurting, he told be about his boyfriend and i suggested they should break up, because he was hitting tristian, but he just said i couldn't possibly understand, so thank you for giving him a safe place and other gay teens to talk to, it means alot to me, and even though we don't really know each other, i just wanted to offer you my service as a strait teen with a gay friend. Tristian told me he was scared i wouldn't accept him, so if you have any other boys with the same fears i would love to help out in any ways possible, i can kind of talk them through how to tell their friends, or anyone, without having to be as scared. Dallas, Oceano

26 Mar 06 - Hi, I'm 16 and have been confused about my sexuality for the past 3 years or so. I am Bi. This part of me has recently taken a toll on me. In November of 2005 I was hospitalized for suicidal thoughts and MDD, Major Depressive Dissorder. I had had sucidal thoughts before, but that time, it was different. I had a plan. I was going to OD while my parents were out of town, no one would find me in time to get my stomach pumped. This scared me, and the next day I saw a a guidence counculer at my school. She started to cry, gave me a hug and called my parents. Now I did not tell her about my sexuality yet, only about my plan and thoughts. I was referred to a Mental Health Hospital, Diminion which was close to my house. I was "accepted" I roomed with a kid who had attempted because his girl friend broke up with him. He helped me thought it all. I lied my way out of the hospital and into out patient therapy there. I was out in record time and back in school, still with a lot of issues. It was all supose to get better right, but it didn't. I still hadn't told anyone what was really bothering me. The funny thing is, so many people at my school have/are being treated for depression. I ended up back in outpatient therapy at Diminion in January. A girl i know from school is there, she is gay. I never knew that, but we are still not very close. I finally told of my friends and he was totally cool with it. After that I told my parents, who think im still "figuring it all out" only a few friends know, and are all fine with it. I have realized, the fight is going to be long and hard, but i cant give up, then they would win. Plus, to many people love me and deserve me to be around. Connor, N. Virginia

22 Mar 06 - Hay Chad! How ya goin! And i'd like to say a big hello to all you gays around the world (we are gonna be liberated one day!) I'd just like to start off by saying that your website is so totally.... Wow! I was gob - smacked for a week after checkin' it out after reading about it in the "TIME" magazine. I'm just so mad that a lot of schools in my country don't really support us. Not just my school but our community. and it goes state wise from there. Why do people have to be so narrow minded and heartless. I dream of a day where i can walk down the street and not feel predjudice to others who feel prejudice to me. Oh well. Guess you got to believe in the brighter things in life. But your web - site is going to help so many young gay teens around the world! Woo! Go gay pride!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Josh, Australia

17 Mar 06 - Hello guys, nice site you got here. I just would like to congratulate you guys for this awesome site. I am 15 right now and i'm gay, i turned gay when i got raped by my father. Right now, i give my asshole for other people to fuck me from behind, and its for free cause i love it, and i also suck dicks cause i love it, i would like to know more about gay people and how to protect my self, thanx, kisses and bye.[See our series on "What You Need to Know About Gay Teen Sex" for ideas on protecting yourself] Ji Jung, Guatamala City

17 Feb 06 - I just wanted to compliment you on the awesome site. It helped me a lot in feeling comfortable with myself and with others. I've recently come out about my sexuality to my mom. Though I was introduced to this site after, it helped in giving me tips on how to maintain a perfect relationship with my family and friends. I have shown this website to about 20 people already and will continue to do so constantly. Kudos to all of you that helped in designing this website! Brian

22 Mar 06 - Hay Chad! How ya goin! And i'd like to say a big hello to all you gays around the world (we are gonna be liberated one day!) I'd just like to start off by saying that your website is so totally.... Wow! I was gob - smacked for a week after checkin it out after reading about it in the "TIME" magazine. I'm just so mad that a lot of schools in my country don't really support us. Not just my school but our community. and it goes state wise from there. Why do people have to be so narrow minded and hearttless. I dream of a day where i can walk down the street and not feel predjudice to others who feel predjudice to me. Oh well. Guess you got to believe in the brighter things in life. But your web - site is going to help so many young gay teens around the world! Woo! Go gay pride!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Josh, Australia

19 Jan 06 - My dear sir or madam...in this case I am forced to assume a sir in that you possess said uncircumcised penis...however...i must convey my whole-hearted discontent with the content of your manhood. While I must admire that you are, dear sir, without a doubt the proverbial "stud" put forth in the Constitution established by our fore fathers, I must still maintain that the contents of your member disturb me. Whilest I indeed condone the acceptance of all races, interests, and genital maitenance, I must continue to put forth that I am indeed baffled by your decision to continue to possess a superfluous piece of flesh that simply results in the discomfort of its viewers. However, I do support your continued confidence in presenting us with your unconventional penis for the sake of education. For this, sir...I salute you. In summary, I must suggest that you circumcise your piece for the sake of humanity. Peace be the journey. Godspeed. Kirsten

10 Oct 05 - Would like to tell you of my experiences of being gang rape and learning to like it. I was labeled gay in the 9th grade, and it was because I like looking at all the hot guys in the shower room at gym time. I live close to the school and always took shortcut through football field and passed the bleachers. This is where five guys from school (older ones) caught me and dragged me under the seats and force me out of my clothes. I was force to perform every conceivable act for them and have them on me. anal, oral and multiple guys in and on me at the same time. I was scared and wanted to scream as it hurt some times. I was left to get home (through the fence and in my back door) but I did this totally naked as they stole my clothes. No one was home and I showered and laied on my bed thinking that it hurt, but I liked it some time. I am now living with one of my tormenters, and we love each other very much. I was fourteen than and now I am fifty. Michael

01 Oct 05 - Hey, i found your site thing and i think it's great. I'm an openly
gay high school senior. I read the section on suicide, and the section on
abusive relationships. And i just wanted to say that i understand. After i made
the self-discovery that i was gay, i began to abuse myself. I became a serious
cutter. It got so bad that i can recall one instance when i was at a concert
and i left into the back alley around the back of the building sat down under a
dumpster and proceeded to gash my arms with a piece of glass that i found lying
on the concrete. Eventually a few of my closest friends found out and they kind
of got me to stop. I say kind of because i really can't. it's been over half a
year since i last cut myself but i still can't look at a blade the same. I
guess the point i'm trying to make is i will always be a cutter, but i have it
under control because of my friends who care about me. They all didn't know i
was gay before this, only one of them did, and the fact that he did know made
it a lot easier for him to understand why. As of now i have plans for college,
and all that jazz. I just thought i would share my story, maybe as a warning to
others who might stumble down this path. sincerely and moronicly, Aaron

02 Aug 05 - I would like to say that I am a somewhat far right republican and I am just
quite ashamed of what goes on today. I am not one to judge and when I see a
homosexual I don't think a thing about it. You know what we should all learn
they are people too. Just like you and me born on this earth; created by God for
a purpose. Almost being 19 I have been accused of being "gay" and everyone has
such a hate for anyone who dresses nicely and actually isn't arrogant. Instead
of talking about thugs in school and misguided teenagers they would rather talk
about who is gay and who isn't. I would like to formally say for my party.. why
shouldn't we accept them? What have they done so wrong? I would to lastly say
to those who do judge gays, "You wanna see a miracle, son? Be the Miracle."
--Morgan Freeman --David

04Aug05 - Best advice to anyone who does not believe that love exists? Hang in
there. Nearly 38 years ago, I had severe doubts that there was such a thing as
love. A "one night stand" changed all that! Same guy - love's stronger than
ever. For church, found the accepting UU's tolerant attitude most welcoming.
Thanks for sites like these that allow us to communicate - we surely had none
in the 60s. J. Kila

20Jul05 - I've been visiting chadzboyz for almost a year now and I must admit, that when I first visited the site, I would have never anticipated the effect it would have on my life. Because of the support I recieved from the forums and the varying posted articles, I have come out of the closet to all of my friends and family; even the parents! I truly must thank you for the enourmas impact you have had on my life. Because of the support I have recieved from numerous parties, I have begun writing articles for the school newspaper on discrimination and spreading my personal view on homosexuality over the internet. I only can hope that I should have the same impact on another's life as this website has had on my own.
Thank you again, (and with eternal gratitude)--Michael

15Jun05 - My name is Alvin, and I am 23-years-old. Being gay and
from a VERY conservative Hindu family, I know what it feels like to be
mistreated rejected. Your site, however, helped me to get through my difficult
transitions. Thanxxx for keeping me entertained and informed!
Your site is friendly, because you allow kids to write stories, poems, and
letters. It gives the writers and readers a personal outlet to express
themselves, which isn't THAT easy to find on other sites, unless you look
REALLY hard.
While others sites like Gay.com are steller in commercial production and
content, you add a more intimate, personal niche for youths to benefit from, as
WELL as steller production. To an immense degree, production and content are
entwined, and it's always important for other webmasters to know that.
Keep up the excellent work! Our goal as gay members of this globe, is to
provide resources for kids where they can actually seek emotional healing, if
that need be sought. Thank you. Alvin

05Jun96 - OMFG...Chad...This site is past awesome!!!! 10-10 doesnt even qualify it!!! I love the fact that this is not a porn site and that it basically give us younglings a porn type of feel and it helped me not kill myself...keep it up;...the guys are hawt..and the site kicks butt bebe.. Jamie

25May05 - I think ur web site is awsome, I mean I was like so O-M-G as in Oh My God i like its cool ans by the way I am a Transgender am Native American and love BOYz i mean who wolkd not like them will got to go later bye see ya - Kris

19May05 - You guys should make a new "buddies" gallory!!!! they(and the kissing) are really good and yall should add more - Nick

i am gay and i just like what i see. i would like if i can get in some pictures too - George

Just came across your site. Great job helping young gay boys come out and feel good about ourselves. Better than XY mag cuz you're not always asking for money or looking for ways to bill people. Thanks for donating your time to help others. Best wishes - Androo

This is a great site. chad....well done there is some real important and under publicised stuff in this. Im a 21 gay man and I work in television production and am working hard to make gay teens aware of issues that are ever so prevolent. There is some info on here that i didnt know myself so im sure you must be helping a large number of confused teenagers. if you ever need anything for your site, drop me a line - John

Why did you exactly start this web site to inspire us? - Nicky

Will you please have more pictures with: guys in their underpants, but you can tell that they have boners, such as like they have a large erection. Thnaks@! -Benjamin

You guys are the bomb. I love your site and awesome sexy pictures of hot guys. Could you send me some pictures!!!!- Tion

hey u should do some more kissing photo albums - Scott

i think this site is realy cool 4 people to come and just let go of the stress that they have been in like for example the poems thiers realy relative and understanding wicth i realy like great job keep it up - Oscar

I love this site but you should have a chat room so other boys or men can hook up or talk to - Sean

i really enjoyed your site, especially the pics! Is there any chance of pictures of full on sex will be on the site or perhaps even films? - Dan

i love ur site it's only for kids like us and free of charge - Danny

hey I think youre website is awesome, could you send me more information. I am a gay pilot and wanted any info on gay pilot groups,thanks love - Jon




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